Open Circle Principles and Practices

An Intentional Circle

Our purpose is to create an intentional, open, multi-generational circle devoted to fostering individual women's spiritual development. Whether for a single circle, or months at a time, each woman may share equally in our ongoing exploration of feminist spirituality.

Council Sharing

Each time a circle is called, we follow the practice of council sharing, where one women at a time speaks without interruption. Council sharing requires the speaker to speak from an "I" perspective and requires the listeners to hear her without an agenda and without considering their responses. We accept each woman’s words as her reality. We do not offer advice or comment on others’ sharing. Council sharing is always optional, there is no requirement that a woman speak in circle.

Taking Responsibility for Our Own Needs

We are not a support group; but our compassionate presence with each other can be supportive. If a member needs support and or advice for a particular issue or event, it is her responsibility to ask for it.

Confidentiality

Our intention is to create a sacred container for all our explorations, musings, and feelings. Whatever is offered in the circle stays in the circle. Whatever happens in the circle may only be discussed/addressed within the circle.

The Basics

The Open Circle will meet on the 2nd, and 4th Saturdays in the UUCF Program
Building, Room 9.
As a matter of respect, the circle itself will be formally called and released
promptly. However, each woman may come and go as she wishes or needs. No
apologies or explanations are necessary.
       * 9:00 a.m. - Socializing; catching up
       * 9:15 a.m. - Circle basics for newcomers
       * 9:30 a.m. - Call the circle; presentation of topic/question to focus the
sharing; council sharing
       * 11:00 a.m. - Release the circle; socializing

Rotating Leadership

The open circle is currently maintained by three rotating facilitators.  Any woman who attends is encouraged to facilitate a circle as soon as she feels comfortable doing so. Co-facilitation with an experienced circle facilitator is always an option. We practice this rotating leadership because we value each individual’s perspective and it ensures that everyone has the opportunity to bring her own spiritual practices, questions, and issues to the circle. We support each other in learning to be good facilitators by giving constructive feedback and assisting when asked.

Shared Ownership

We are all responsible for and to the circle. We are each responsible for insuring that our practices are followed, and participating in conflict resolution. We will gently and respectfully remind each other of our practices when necessary. Because the circle does not rely on one or a few women, it will not come to depend on the participation of any individual.

Coordinator

The Open Circle is coordinated by scbennett [at] cox [dot] net (Susan Bennett). The circle coordinator:

• maintains the schedule and email list;
• insures that there is a facilitator for each circle
• lists the circles in the UUCF announcements

Open Group vs. Closed Group

An open group welcomes newcomers and drop-ins. A closed group does not; but rather is comprised solely of women who have chosen to commit to attending regularly scheduled circles as a personal priority. As women in a closed group share more over time, that sharing is deepened by a greater sense of safety, trust, and caring.  Spaces in closed groups are often available and there is a waiting list kept if there is not currently an opening.  Please contact the circle coordinator if you are interested in a closed, committed circle. 

Group Self-Assessment

At least once a year, the group will review and reconsider its focus and goals and review and update this document.